Long life or the power of memory ?

Would you like to live five hundred years or more? What would you do if you had a very long life? Would you be happy? Hmm you may get bored? But I think the vital question is: What would you remember from the old days? Sometimes I ask myself what remains from now to tomorrow. If I didn't remember yesterday, I wouldn't create special moments for tomorrow. Because it wouldn't be that fun if you didn't remember all those special moment from the past. It's like a project that you've been working on your computer. If you cannot save that you've created, what is the point of working on it? Or you got a packet. Everyday you put a gold coin in your pocket but you recognize there is a big hole in the pocket and all those you've saved now is gone. How would you feel? As you can see memory is one of the most important thing in satisfaction and happiness. Everyday instead of imagining bad events, imagine happy moments from your life. Bad things seem big when we met them first . They are just momentarily difficulties. Defeat them and turn them into successes. Let them make you more powerful. And as long as you defeat them, they will be the other happy moments which are your victories. Make your happy moments immortal because they will be your savior in the bad periods of your life. And you should know that, you weren't be that strong person if all those difficulties didn't occur and you didn't defeat them. Obviously this life is the only thing that I have and I just try to enjoy as much as I can . And of course I'd rather have strong and good memories than an eternal life.

And one more thing : Happiness is real if you share it :)

Love and Hate

Sometimes I hear that one should love everything.Carry a lot of love in your heart for everyone,even for your enemy.I don't think these kind of things are healthy thoughts.If you love everything,your love will loose it's meaning.What is love?I think it's a special feeling.It's like finding some thing from heaps which has a meaning for you,finding some people from crowds who have the same points as you.You can't love everything.If you think you do,then you really don't love anything.Why?Because something must be special for you.You should pay attention for them.Sometimes you make sacrifices for the sake of them.And somebody loves you back,does the same things for you.So you will be able to happy together.It's the deal.But isn't this pretty normal to hate something/somebody that is against your love?You cannot show respect for people who try to hurt you and people that you love.You may sit and think that why other people try to hurt you without a reason.But there is a reason.People are different.Sometimes,somebody may dare to cross your borders for his/her benefits.In this case you just can't sit and watch.You have to show your range for your them for your enemy to protect what you love.This is why hate exists.It's an art to use your hate to lead your life.Hate isn't too bad and harmful unless you can't control your mind.You have to hate something if you really love something.Well you may hate to think about bad things,you may hate people who try to steal your love but yeah you have to hate.And you should know there will always be a war.Life itself is a war.

"igitur qui desiderat pacem, praeparet bellum"(latin proverb)

"therefore whoever desires peace, let him prepare for war"